Sukan PASTI An-Nur

After weeks of training, finally the day that Aisyah had been waiting for has come - Hari Sukan PASTI. She was so excited to go to school that day. Even Amal wanted to go along. She said she wanted to win prizes. Kids... that's all what they can think off... but I told her that winning is not what matters, but the fun that she was going to have that day with all her friends, that's what matters.

Aisyah in Yellow Team (Kuning Taqwa)

Other teams are Hijau Iman and Merah Istiqamah

One of the games

Aisyah got 1st place in Hati-hati Anakku Sayang, 2nd in Bawalah Anakku Sayang and 2nd in Pintar Anakku Pintar

Re-written on Sept 3, 2009 @ 7:27am

@ Ulu Yam

splish...splash...splosh...yey!... Aisyah and Anis were having so much fun that day... Amal??hmmm.... she wasn't really excited to stay in the water... it was sooo cold....

Written on July 21, 2009 @ 3:58pm

Mag Cover

Magazine? really??

By me... July 8, 2009

Musim Buah Di Kampung

Alhamdulillah.... Jumaat lepas sempat jugak balik Kelantan sekejap sempena musim buah.... banyak betul buah durian ngan manggis kat kebun abah.... hubby cakap, dulu masa kecil, dia selalu ajak kawan-kawan datang ke rumah, sama-sama panjat pokok, kutip buah..... sekarang ni, dah ramai kengkawan dia yang berhijrah ke kota.... tak dapatlah nak berkumpul macam dulu-dulu.... hari tu kami ajak jugak mana-mana kawan yang free.... Alhamdulillah, kebetulan kak Ma (Kasuma) ngan husband dia free.... dapat jugak berjumpa ngan mereka....

kami sebenarnya tak bercadang pun nak balik kampung coz cuti sekolah hari tu dah pun balik.... lagipun Aisyah sekolah and hubby takleh amik cuti panjang.... tapi, memandangkan sekarang ni musim buah, dan buah-buahan kat kebun abah menjadi, maka kami ambil keputusan untuk balik walaupun hanya untuk dua hari....

kalau setakat nak makan durian, kat KL ni pun boleh beli.... harga ok, RM8 sekilo bagi D24 ngan IOI.... tapi beli kat sini, dua benda jer lah yang kami dapat - makan durian ngan habis duit.... pastu diri sendiri jer yang happy....

berbanding kalau balik kampung, banyak yang kami dapat - jenguk mama abah di kampung, bawa anak-anak gi jalan-jalan (balik kampung), travel, jumpa ngan sahabat yang dah lama tak jumpa, makan durian and manggis, lagi banyak dari yang beli kat KL, and of course la, spend duit minyak and tol... tapi habis duit untuk balik kampung ni takper, bermakna, sebab bila balik kampung, boleh gembirakan hati parents....

time musim buah ni, kalau anak-cucu balik, mesti parents happy coz ada yang makan hasil tanaman mereka....

"tiada yang lebih menggembirakan hati ibu bapa selain dari menyambut kepulangan anak cucu mereka dari perantauan...."

Written on July 8, 2009 @ 4:51pm

Potluck - Durian

Last week we managed to held a reunion at our home on Sunday.... the theme was 'Potluck Durian' coz it's Durian season... yeay!

but only few could come.... kak Siti Norsiha and family, Samhan, and Tabarani and family.... they're all our friends from U.... we were very excited to meet them again after a long time.... but we didn't get the chance to capture the moment in our camera coz we were busy with our kids....

these are the only pictures I took.... my kids before the reunion and the dessert which I made a day before the reunion... hehe

Written on July 6, 4:15 pm

Karnival Sinar Islam @ Damansara Damai

Last weekend there was a carnival being held here at Damansara Damai known as Karnival Sinar Islam, and for the first time, my baby girl, Aisyah entered a Nasyid Competition.... boy I was sooo excited!.... she was too.... everyday after coming home from school she would talk about it....

but unfortunately, that day, I didn't get the chance to watch her singing on stage with her friends (5-year old group)....we went out that morning and got home late....then my hubby sent her to school to gather up with her teachers and school mates while I prepared the rest of our kids to go out....but then, my hubby didn't get the chance to pick me up coz he was on duty (he was assigned as a photographer for the event)....and when I finally got there, the result was already being announced....I was sooo devastated....

Aisyah's group didn't win coz all other groups were 6-year old kids....her group got number 8 out of 8...hahaha

pictures taken by my hubby...

the next day, there was a coloring competition and Aisyah really loves to color....but again, she didn't win coz we got there late and she didn't get to finish her coloring....

I told her that it was OK not to win coz winning is not the most important thing when competing, but the enjoyment of participating in such event is more important....

Written on July 6, 2009 @ 4.00 pm

Wif Horses

For the first time....I got the chance of holding a horse...next, I'll be riding one...hahaha

here horsy.....

this one looks feminine...

smile horsy....

recently born

little guys

this place is situated nearby Masjid Tengku Tengah Zahrah a.k.a Masjid Terapung, Kuala Ibai...open everyday for riding except for Mondays...huhu

Written on June 15, 2009 @ 6:17pm

My Kids @ The Beach

For the first time, my kids got the chance of playing at the beach....actually, KNOWING the beach...hehe...my hubby took them there...we never really had the chance of going there everytime we went back to KT...

They had so much fun there...Aisyah kept asking my hubby to go there...except for Amal who was afraid of the water...she would rather stay in the car than out playing with her sisters....huhu

Written on June 14, 2009 (10:53am)

My School

During the school break, I got the chance of going back to my old schools (both primary and secondary) to have a look at it. But sadly, I totally forgot about my first school....oh well....I only spent a year there anyway...nothing to remember about....

here are some pics....

This is my second primary school, where I spent 3 years - 1st Grade to 3rd Grade (1989-1991)

before, I spent a year at Sekolah Rendah Tengku Bariah (SRTB) - 1st Grade (1988)

Here is where we perform solat before going home

This is the new building (new classes)....didn't have the chance to step my foot there till now...

Where it's situated

Used to be known as Muassasah Darus Salam

In the midst of the city of Kuala Terengganu....this is where I spent 2-3 months...end of 1997...I took it as a transit...hahaha

before, I spent 6 years studying at Ma'ahad Darul Quran, Rusila (Form 1 - Form 6) from 1992-mid 1997...I was 11 when I entered the school

This is where I took my SMU (1998) and SPM (1999) exams...I was 18...huhu...a year late than was supposed to...

My education background is a bit complicated...huhu...but still, that's what makes me so different than others...haha

After I got my SPM result, I furthered my studies at UiTM, Machang....

Written on June 14, 2009 (10:29am)

....as a memory to remember in the future....something to tell my kids when they grow up...

School Break

Eversince Aisyah started to go to school, we can only go back to our hometown during school breaks....which is so sad....no more our own free time....

this time, we went back to KT first coz on the first day of school break, our cousin got married at Paka. The night before, we stayed at Cherating (Ranting Beach Resort) where we grouped up with our parents and family. We got there exactly at midnight....so tired....

The next day, we woke up early and departed to Paka at about 8am to join for 'aqad nikah' ceremony at Masjid Kampung Nyior. We stopped by at my sister's house on the way there to pick up some 'keropok'. After 'aqad nikah', we all waited at the mosque for the 'kenduri' which started at noon.

The bride and groom with the groom's family

Ainie a.k.a cik Ani

Mama a.k.a atuk

After having 'lunch' at the 'kenduri', we departed to KT. At about 4pm, we arrived at my dad's house....phew...what a long day....

Written on June 13, 2009 @ 12:56pm

6th Wedding Anniversary

Wow....so dusty in here....need to do some cleaning up.......

fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh.......there.....nice and clean (",)......

1st March 2009, our 6th anniversary.....hmm.....6 years already....Alhamdulillah.......

with 4 kids and no maid, we can't go out celebrating without bringing them all, so, there's no 'our' time......huhu.....but still, we have fun at Alamanda Putrajaya....

and our kids got a new toy, a set of Playdoh......they were so happy that after we got home that night from Putrajaya, they didn't wanna go to sleep though they were exhausted and feeling sleepy....kids.....

here are some pics...

Cukur - Fathi

Alhamdu lillah…setelah berminggu tertangguh, akhirnya dapat jugak cukur rambut Fathi sebentar tadi. Asalnya nak cukur hari ke tujuh (ikut sunnah), tapi tak terbuat memandangkan masa tu baru lepas reda sakit rengat. Lepas tu plan nak cukur seminggu kemudian, tak dapat jugak memandangkan tak dapat nak ‘larikan diri’ dari Aisyah dan adik-adiknya. Bahaya jugak kalau diorang tengok, takut nanti ada yang ikut, kes naya… pas tu, sama jugak dengan minggu-minggu yang seterusnya…sampailah hari ni, baru boleh cukur coz kebetulan lepas balik sekolah tadi, Aisyah tertidur sekali ngan Amal dan Anis…hehhee…peluang dah tiba…

Kenangan Cukur Rambut Anak-anak

Dulu, masa cukur Aisyah tak yah lari dari saper-saper coz memang takder saper pun…hehhee…Cuma masa cukur Aisyah dulu, umur dia dah dekat nak setahun. Masa dia baby, takat gunting jer, tak berani punya pasal. Bila dia dah besar sikit baru berani cukur. Kesian pulak kat dia bila teringat balik… lepas cukur jer, terus mood dia jadi kurang baik, asyik sedih memanjang…maybe sebab dia dah besar, tetiba jer takder rambut, rasa dogol jer…

Time Amal pulak, sempat cukur dua kali. Masa tu, dah berani laa…dah ada experience…tunggu Aisyah tidur, line clear, boleh cukur.

Time Anis susah sikit, coz nak kena menyorok dari Aisyah dan Amal. Last-last, masuk bilik, tutup pintu, kunci…selamat…tapi kejap-kejap ada la yang ketuk pintu dari luar…tak layan…hehheee… Anis sempat cukur 4 kali jer. Plan nak cukur 7 kali, tapi lepas kali ke-4 tu, rambut dia lambat tumbuh. Takut jugak…nanti kang tak tumbuh-tumbuh, kesian pulak kat dia.

Time Fathi, dah citer dah kat atas…baru sempat sekali. Lepas ni tak tahu ada peluang lagi ke takder… tulah pengalaman cukur rambut anak-anak…

Fathi (sebelum cukur)

WIP (Work In Progress)

Dah sudah cukur... lepas pekena susu sebotol...upah...

Wassalam…
Najdah MH
February 6, 2009
5.52pm

Rengat

First time dengar perkataan ‘rengat’ dulu, ingatkan pengat, tersilap sebut jadilah rengat…hehhee… Lepas bersalin Aisyah dulu, segar bugar. Ma dan mama cakap, tak macam orang lepas bersalin. Jalan laju macam biasa, duduk pun selamba jer, tak yah slow motion. Alhamdu lillah la… Rengat pun takder. Masa tu tak pernah dengar pun perkataan tu.

First Time Rengat

Time bersalin Amal dulu, ada la sakit perut sikit. Tu lah rengat kalau nak tau - sakit perut lepas bersalin. Orang cakap, semakin ramai anak, sakit rengat semakin kuat. Bermula dari anak ke dua dan seterusnya. Setengah orang cakap pulak, rengat berlanjutan mengikut bilangan anak - anak ke dua sakit dua hari, ke tiga, tiga hari dan seterusnya. Betul atau tak, wallahu a’lam. Tapi, yang pastinya, time Amal dulu tak rasa sangat sakit rengat ni. Still sihat dan segar cam biasa.

Sakit Bagai Nak Rak!

Masa bersalin Anis dulu, sakit rengat sekejap jer. Lebih kurang macam takder paperlah. Tapi lepas bersalin Fathi hari tu, sakit sangat-sangat lah. Keluar jer Fathi, terus rasa sakit dalam perut. Sakit lagi dari nak bersalin. Buat pertama kalinya rasa fobia nak bersalin…hehhee…

Darah Beku - Rengat : Ada Kaitan

Lepas bersalin Fathi hari tu, keesokan hari baru bangun masuk toilet, tu pun sebab terpaksa, kalau tak, takleh keluar wad. Kalau ikutkan hati, nak baring jer kat atas katil sebab sakit perut. Bila masuk toilet, terjatuh darah beku kat atas lantai. Kali ni tak terkejut dah la coz time bersalin Amal dulu macam ni jugak. Cuma kali ni ketulan darah tu tak sebesar dulu. Time Amal dulu terkejut beruk dibuatnya. Apa taknya, tetiba jer keluar darah ketul lebih kurang sebesar penumbuk. Gabra kejap.

Bila dah balik rumah baru dapat tahu yang sakit rengat akan berkurang bila darah beku keluar (tak ingat dah siapa yang cakap camtu). Bila fikir balik, mungkin sebab tu kot lepas bersalin Anis dulu tak sakit sangat coz masa tu doktor dah keluarkan darah beku tu.

Kali ni 3-4 hari jugak sakit. Tapi kekerapan sakit tu makin berkurangan la, lebih-lebih lagi lepas darah beku keluar. Syukur Alhamdu lillah la sakit tak sampai seminggu. Boleh la nak uruskan Fathi dan kakak-kakak dia.

Pengalaman bersalin dari anak pertama hingga ke empat ni semuanya berbeza-beza. Satu pengalaman yang cukup manis, berharga dan memberi kesedaran - betapa besarnya pengorbanan ibu melahir dan membesarkan kita. Sebab tu lah sementara ibu kita masih hidup ni, kita kena hargai mereka, jaga mereka, gembirakan hati mereka dan balas jasa mereka sedaya mungkin walaupun pada hakikatnya tak terbalas jasa mereka…

Mudah-mudahan kita semua menjadi anak soleh yang sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan dan kebahagiaan ibu kita…


Wassalam…
Najdah MH
February 6, 2009
3.56pm

Catatan Kehamilan Ke Empat (sambungan)

Lepas hantar saya balik kampung, husband balik semula ke KL sebab kerja. Tinggal la saya dengan anak-anak. Kebetulan masa tu parents husband ada kat Langkawi atas urusan kerja, keesokan harinya baru mereka balik, jadi terpaksalah minta mama saya temankan coz kat rumah takder orang. Takut jugak duk sorang-sorang time tengah sarat ni.

Tahun Baru

Alhamdu lillah, 2008 telah pun berlalu... sebelum tu risau jugak, kot-kot lah bersalin hujung tahun. Tapi, husband memang dah agak dah, paling awal pun 1 atau 2 Jan katanya. Hm…1 Jan KL cuti, so husband tak kerja. Kesian pulak kat dia duk sorang-sorang. Tapi biasanya dia ada banyak urusan. Lebih-lebih lagi dah dekat nak buka sekolah. Mesti dia sibuk dengan urusan PASTI. Confirm tak boring punyerlah…

‘Tumpah Darah’

1 Jan : Tengah malam tu, lepas husband balik dari meeting, bergayut kejap kat telefon. Sajer nak berbual… Pesan kat husband, beli tiket awal-awal. Kalau ikut plan, 2 Jan malam, husband naik bas coz budget bersalin dalam 2-3 hari lepas tu. Risau jugak takut takder tiket.

2 Jan : Pagi tu, masa nak solat subuh, keluar darah sikit. Teringat kat kata-kata husband, antara tanda-tanda nak bersalin, keluar darah. Lepas solat, terus call husband. Suruh dia beli tiket pagi tu jugak.

Admitted

Dalam pukul 10am, kedua-dua mama saya bawa saya ke Pusat Perubatan An-Nisa’ kat Kota Bharu. Doktor cek jalan baru buka 1cm. So, tak perlu admitted lagi. Tapi, kalau balik rumah dulu, nak ke klinik semula susah coz nanti anak-anak nak ikut. Tambahan pula, rumah agak jauh dari klinik. So, ma (mak mentua) dan mama nasihat supaya stay jer kat situ. Lepas admitted, ma balik ke rumah untuk tengok-tengokkan Aisyah, Amal dan Anis sementara mama temankan saya kat klinik.

Kronologi Kelahiran Fathi

Intro : Husband naik bas dalam pukul 9am. Budget sampai lebih kurang pukul 6.30pm. Dalam hati ni berdoa mudah-mudahan husband sempat sampai sebelum bersalin. Kalau boleh, biarlah husband sendiri yang mengazankan baby nanti.

Labour Room (1) : 4.30pm nurse bawa saya ke labour room. Masa tu, jalan baru buka 2cm. Nurse cakap lambat lagi. Tapi, kalau ikut kebiasaan, saya ni cepat bersalin.

Sakit dah semakin kuat, tapi jalan still tak bukak… Time nak bersalin Anis dulu, macam ni jugak. Masa tu, rasa pelik jugak, coz dah sakit sangat-sangat, rasa nak teran dah tapi jalan still tak bukak. Rupa-rupanya sebab saya tahan kencing. Nurse cakap, bila pundi kencing penuh, jalan tak bukak. Patut pun…

Kalau ikutkan sakit, nak jer bagitau nurse rasa nak kencing. Barulah cepat sikit bersalin. Tapi, kalau ikutkan hati, nak tahan jer biar lambat sikit bersalin coz nak tunggu husband sampai dulu. Tapi, kena lah tahan sakit…uwaa…

Balik ke Bilik (Kasih 3) : 6pm nurse bawa saya ke bilik semula. Katanya, saya lambat lagi nak bersalin. Memanglah lambat lagi coz saya sengaja tahan…hehhee…nak tunggu husband punya pasal… Terkejut gak mama bila tengok saya balik semula ke bilik tapi tak bersalin lagi. Saya cakap kat mama, baby nak tunggu papa dia…hehhee…

Husband Sampai : Alhamdu lillah tepat jam 6.30pm, husband sampai kat depan klinik. Bila husband dah sampai, barulah saya ke toilet. Lepas tu, sakit pun bertambah kuat. Bila nurse datang, minta nurse bawa ke labour room. Tapi, sebelum tu, nak solat maghrib ngan isya’ dulu.

Labour Room (2) : Selesai solat, dalam pukul 8pm, sekali lagi nurse bawa saya ke labour room. Kali ni husband ikut sekali (“,). Tak lama lepas tu, ada 2 orang lagi yang dimasukkan ke labour room - sorang dah 8cm, sorang lagi dah pecah ketuban. Sementara saya baru nak masuk 4cm.

Tahan Kencing : Nurse jangka saya lambat lagi bersalin, so semuanya sibuk menguruskan 2 orang tadi. Kesian pulak bila dengar salah sorang tu susah nak teran. Nurse cakap jalannya dah habis buka tapi dia seolah tak nak teran.

Tak lama lepas tu, saya mula rasa macam nak teran. Tapi bila nurse cek, jalan baru buka 4cm. Baru teringat, tadi minum air. Bagitau kat nurse nak kencing. Ingatkan nurse nak masukkan tiub untuk keluarkan air kencing macam kat Damansara Damai Medical Centre dulu (time bersalin Anis). Rupa-rupanya, dia letak bekas kat bawah saya, lepas tu suruh saya kencing. Isk…susahnya…dah la masa tu tengah baring…

Selamat Bersalin : Lepas kencing jer, bertambah la sakit. Memang betul cakap orang, bersalin tumpah darah ni lebih sakit berbanding pecah ketuban (sakit masa jalan nak buka). Tak lama lepas tu, saya minta nurse pecahkan ketuban. Bila dah pecah jer, terus rasa cam nak teran. Nurse cek dah 8cm.

Saya nak teran dah, tapi nurse cakap 10cm baru boleh teran. Masa tu tak teringat pulak time bersalin Anis, 8cm jer baby dah keluar. Nurse suruh saya mengiring semula coz cepat sikit jalan bukak. Bila saya mengiring jer, rasa kepala baby nak keluar. Cepat-cepat nurse baringkan saya. Tak sempat nak tarik nafas, terus teran. Alhamdu lillah sekali teran jer, Fathi selamat dilahirkan tepat jam 9.50pm dengan berat 3.35kg. Fuh…boleh tahan jugak… Kali ni Alhamdu lillah takder luka, so tak perlu jahit. Masa saya bersalin tu, 2 orang tadi masih belum bersalin.

Pegang Pengepit : Husband cakap, lepas Fathi keluar, dia terus pegang pengepit yang nurse guna untuk kepit tali pusat. Husband cakap masa tu dia risau sangat - takut pengepit tu tercucuk Fathi dan takut Fathi tergelongsor jatuh katil. Alhamdu lillah semuanya selamat. Lepas nurse letak Fathi dalam bekas kat bawah lampu, saya tengok tangan dia pegang dinding bekas tu. Happy bila saya tengok tangan kecil dia berpaut kat situ. Lupa sekejap rasa sakit.

Lepas saya dibawa semula ke bilik, husband pun balik ke rumah untuk menjaga Aisyah, Amal dan Anis. Teringat permintaan Aisyah pada saya masa nak ke klinik pagi tu…

“Ma…Aisyah nak baby boy pulak. Mama bawa balik baby boy na…”

Sejak lepas bersalin Anis dulu, memang Aisyah selalu cakap nak baby boy pulak. Alhamdu lillah, Allah mengurniakan Fathi kepada kami suami isteri. Boleh lah Fathi temankan papa dia keluar menjalankan aktiviti dakwah bila besar nanti… Insya Allah…



Wassalam…
Najdah MH
February 5, 2009
5.58pm